Another example of the gap between cultural perceptions and reality.
…Lots of changes in a changing world, makes it easier to embrace change…
…I started mentoring and coaching folks in marketing at AirTreks and BootsnAll
…I started a new position at AirTreks…Travel Servant. Learning a tonne, listening and helping travelers that are looking to transform themselves and family.
…Asset prices still look high to me, opportunities to buy into or invest in companies with a margin of error are not coming through my deal flow.
…I’m working with professionals to further learn and explore communication and perspective taking. I’ve dived deep in the Drama Triangle, and Empowerment Triangle and how it can come up in my personal and business life. Awareness of this has been super perspective changing.
…I struggle to relate to the main stream media and cultural conversation around dualistic thinking and perspectives.
…continuing to engage, learn, be humbled and have massive moments of love and joy as a single father of 3
…considering the math problem of carbon being burned by humans it vs stored in the earth. I’m considering it as a math problem. Not an if you agree or don’t agree issue as promoted via main stream media.
…The Travel Access Project won an award a few months ago that we did not apply for. Jenn and I and others continue to try to make a difference in people’s lives via gap year grants. We have learned that candidates outside of the USA make the $3000 per grants go a lot farther.
As always, please reach out if you want to talk about any of the above, or something related. Sending positive energy your way…
…started as part-time CFO of the BootsnAll Travel Network in beginning of 2018, while continuing as Chairman of BTN since Jan 2017
…started small scale farming, lots of learning and experimenting
…continue to work with The Wayfinding Academy in an effort to disrupt higher education. The 3rd cohort is starting this Fall. Lots of interesting challenges in starting a college from scratch.
…continue to work on the Travel Access Project in an effort to get a GAP year on every Resume. We are launching new products in 2018
…continue to explore investing in companies and a few start-ups that align with my purpose and core values. With asset prices so high the past few years, I’m not finding many value oriented ideas.
…continue to be actively involved in my 3 kids day to day lives at school/home. This summer we are exploring Oregon, Pennsylvania, doing another Family Camp, and being outside as much as possible without devices.
…continue to practice meditation and movement in nature
…continue to meet with people over walk/talks and smoothies instead of sit down lunches/coffees. (Contact me if you want to join me)
…continue to read books and ideas and theories that challenge my current paradigm.
“Now the commencement speakers will typically also wish you good luck and extend good wishes to you. I will not do that, and I’ll tell you why. From time to time in the years to come, I hope you will be treated unfairly, so that you will come to know the value of justice. I hope that you will suffer betrayal because that will teach you the importance of loyalty. Sorry to say, but I hope you will be lonely from time to time so that you don’t take friends for granted. I wish you bad luck, again, from time to time so that you will be conscious of the role of chance in life and understand that your success is not completely deserved and that the failure of others is not completely deserved either. And when you lose, as you will from time to time, I hope every now and then, your opponent will gloat over your failure. It is a way for you to understand the importance of sportsmanship. I hope you’ll be ignored so you know the importance of listening to others, and I hope you will have just enough pain to learn compassion. Whether I wish these things or not, they’re going to happen. And whether you benefit from them or not will depend upon your ability to see the message in your misfortunes.”
Found this via Farnham Street, Mr Shane Parrish
A few ideas from Father Boyle’s talk (11 mins) are sticking with me
– Thoughts on not standing in judgement, but with
– The story of the Jose. (Watch on youtube here)
– His message was short, sweet and impactful. I cried while watching.
– What is it that I am leaving, and moving towards?
Sending positive thoughts to all folks in the world today.
Scale of 1 to 10 (10 being the best) – my feelings are at this time, 2015 was a 9.17.
I look at the past, through rose colored glasses and forget or remember challenges as “fun” after the fact.
Just the other night, I was out to dinner with some travel industry folk. Another person said, “What a great time to be alive and human” – I could not agree more and have said this myself the past few years.
Before Christmas, I had a dinner with a group of super accomplished business folks and we all shared our highlights from the past year. Everyone’s highlights, including mine were of a personal/love/family nature.
I was stoked since all our accomplishments, pail in comparison to the feeling of being connected to our fellow humans. Maybe the word “love” could be a way to describe this feeling.
Yes, there is tragedy, suffering, and injustice in the world. There always has been.
I’m continuing to put my attention in the joy and love direction. I suspect what we give attention, grows.
Where is your attention in 2016?
While speaking with some friends last night about 2015 goals, one of them stated:
I’m a proponent of the No Drama philosophy. I made the unfortunate decision of hanging around some people who “Love Drama”.
I remember lives that were filled with huge ups and downs over nothing. I think they thought they had their own reality TV show, but of course, they didn’t.
The smallest perceived slight turned into Drama that lasted hours/days.
How tiring and wasteful.
Drama did not build good vibes between the folks involved. Perhaps it is an ANTI – 7 habits of highly successful people habit.
I got a speeding ticket in May of this year from an automated machine sitting on the side of the road. The ticket did not reach my mailbox until early August. My follow up court date was yesterday.
This was the first time I was in court for a moving violation since I was 16 years old. (39 now) I listened to perhaps 30 cases go before mine came up. The whole system appears to be a waste of peoples time, creates no value in our community, and charges fines to many folks who just can’t afford it.
Are the roads safer because of these automated speeding tickets?
Is Milwaukie Safer/Better because code violation officers are walking around fining homeowners whose shrubs go over the property line?
Government has it’s place, I understand. But this appeared to be a money laundering operation. The judge went through each case in about 1 or 2 minutes. Always “lowered” the fine to $120, $160 or $250. By my calculations they are generating in the neighborhood of $10,000/hour. A few bored/miserable government workers get a job, while many hard working or folks who don’t have much are inconvienenced and charged these “fines” while be talked down to by the judge in his disrespectful condescending tone.
It’s just a sad thing to see.
Lebron this year, is not the same player that he was last year in the playoffs for Cleveland.
Last year, he gave up.
This year he is trying.
No matter what he says about this, don’t listen. As always, don’t listen to what people say, Look at their actions.
I feel bad for the fans of Cleveland. It’s even more obvious this year, that he “gave up” last year.
Lebron = wimp
Brandy and I fell in love with the Nespresso Coffee machine on our recent trip to Australia. Our friends had an older machine and after dinner every night they made a perfect expresso in a matter of seconds. We researched the Nespresso machines out there and got a cube. We’ve had it since July 2009 and still love it.
It costs about .55 per capsule – so it more expensive than regular drip coffee at your house, but way cheaper than going to the shop. Here is a new video that they send customers a few days ago about 3 new flavors of coffee. Kind of a fun Video.